Sorry correction: regarding text message convo, he said what do you consider "big". I said IDK what do you think? He said no clue? I looked at DD xmas list and responded: I guess nevermind. Her list doesn't have anything big on it, just smaller items and giftcards. He hasn't and probably won't respond.

Me: 41
H: 43
M: 21 yrs
DD: 15

1st bombshell: 2002 - 6 months
2nd bombshell/moved out: 10/03/2012
OW: 10/12/2012
Signed MDA & PP: 11/20/12; but not submitting
Confirmed OW living with H: 11/21/12