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[Snookee]

Well I'm back here at this first topic of mine reading the beginning things that I wrote and the comments made. I was told my sandi2 that they may break up soon. Well she threw him out of the house 2 times in 2 months and told him to go home to me. The first episode lasted maybe a day and then she took him back. The second time she packed everything and delivered it to my house. So he was forced to be there. Long story short, he led me to believe that there was a chance of us getting back but I just knew that he needed time to lick his wounds since it was her decision to cut him loose. He was in and out for a couple of weeks and I was planning the holidays when he just left! Just like that! And he went back to her! I went into that deep sadness that I felt in the beginning and was getting out of. This is a savvy business woman and able to have anything she wants. My apartment can fit into her house probably 20 times. I feel he went back to her because she's footing everything. I also think that he's her "conquest". She knew that I didn't want him to go and she knew how it hurt everyone involved. I don't know why a woman would take a married man back after he was caught being intimate with his wife more than one occasion. Well one thing for sure.....I am NOT going to do anything with him; not text him or sleep with him or call him. I'm doing the complete detachment again. But I have to be honest and say I'm hurting very much and its horrible this happened around the holidays. How can a husband be so cruel to his wife? Even our adult kids were happy and now they're mixed up too. I'm at the "now what" stage of dealing with this. I still love my husband but I have looked at the dating sites and am going to a separation/divorce weekly meeting group. I'm at this crossroad because I truly believe that its not a true love he has with her. He had told me that and looked directly at me when I asked and that I believe. So.....now what???