I think you've had a pivotal experience, and so, make it count.
I like where you are, and where you are headed. Keep us posted. I may read that book b/c it sounds like DBing but explained differently.
I have tried to explain to people that sometimes this is ALL ABOUT US and not about our spouses,
not b/c I want to absolve the wayward or harsh spouse, but b/c it is about our growth and it's all we can control. And it always leads to better things in life even if the marriage is not restored.
making it about spiritual growth, is the same thing but better worded.
So, thank you for this.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016