OK Something big just happened and I need some input. My wife just messaged me that she finally told her child hood best friend what is going on and about the OM and that she is leaving me. She says her best friend was hurt that she did not tell her sooner that she was not fulfilled in her marriage. I messaged her back that I was sorry for what I have done.

Why would she tell me about being unfullfilled for so long? Did I answer it right? I wanted to show her that I know where I fell short.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017