so as it stands nc and anyone that doesnt agree with her version of events gets pushed away. now the mil is trying to convince our s what a terrible person i am and that only angers him. i asked our s to try to look at his moms actions as someone on drugs and to try to let go of the anger towards her. sad that ex has driven a wedge between s and d,s. ex has even manipulated youngest d into a wreck with boyfriend because he doesnt believe her story. should i just stay nc? ive realized ive been using female friends as self esteem boosters and even though it helped ive realized its not fair to them. way to much reaction to her actions. advice appreciated?