Why do i feel so bad for my WAW.. I sent her a late notice i got from the car that is both names. this was give to her mom to give to WAW. SHe was 400 past due and 460 for the current moths payment. The letter was given to her 2 or 3 days ago. So Today I get a text from her say " I took care of the car. Sorry about that. enjoy your day."
I did reply saying "it is not a problem Love you XO"
I did not get a chance to put money in the joint account like I said I would earlier. Have to wait till I get paid to do that. But i feel so bad that she is having such a hard time. I do not know ere she got the money to pay it but have a good idea. But i am not going to worry about that.
Here is what im feeling is this wrong to feel this.
I feel so bad that she is having a hard time that all i want to do is just help her. I feel like crying for her. I know how she gets around the holidays. Now should I still put the money in the joint account..
One thing about the text is she did not yell at me like she would have a few months ago. I guess that is good. But i know deep down she is upset that she had to pay the car payment. I have been trying to do things that will bring us together and not cause more bad thoughts about me. So by doing giving her the late notice i caused more negitive feelings and that is the part i hate. is this ok for me to feel this way?
should i still put money in account or will she feel as if im doing it cause i feel sorry for her. thus causeing more bad feelings
Also should I continue to tell her I love her in my texts i send. I just put LU XO at the end of my texts to her. she has been reseptive to them in the past but not today..
