I was at this point 5 years ago and I did nothing to fix it. It got to the point where, i stopped filling her love tank and I am where I am at because of that.
Fill her love tank, be the 1st to do it. Don't wait, take actions. Your at a great place!!! A place many of us LBS want to be in. Realize our issues before your Spouse Drops the bomb.
You don't even need to talk, show actions of her love language.