Just a word of caution and I'm sure you know this, most women like to relate and talk about our emotions. Many men glaze over and become a little hard of hearing when these subjects come up. Neither way is right or wrong, it just is what it is.

I don't know your H but you do. What do you think is happening in your his head when you start the emotions talk?

You've probably heard this around here: You can't talk your way out of something you acted your way into. Men are typically action-oriented.

It might be better to sort through your emotions and then simply act based on your conclusions rather than share all that with him.

Just something to think about.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss