Hmmm...I just emailed my reply to his texts and said basically
I was not ignoring you I was simply sorting through my emotions to see which were valid and which were reactionary. My valid emotion is please just ask. I realize this is difficult because communication has not been easy for me and every time you would ask I would shut you down, so you would simply stop asking. but it would go a long way if you could ask and I could respond. Maybe we can start fresh in the communication department.
Still not sure about coffee. If he responds with ya but you...... Then it is no coffee. If he acknowledges my truth of how I respond usually then maybe
