I don't understand the situational ethics comment.
Do you want to go to coffee with him?
I think it refers to how I see privacy when we were married and that I would look at his phone or open his mail( nothing personal, but statements or whatever). He hated that and me? I couldn't care less if he went through my stuff. So I think he is either alluding to that or the fact that I was in the bathroom a long time at his place and looked in the medicine cabinet. I didn't take anything lol! But he is equating the two.
No, I don't want to go for coffee, because as of yesterday we just started communicating by email about our marriage in the past, what he felt and I said what I felt and it was enlightening for sure.
I am too hurt to see him right now, but maybe once I sort through the emotions I can email him back and say yes or no. I have let my emotions dictate my courses of action and I cannot do that anymore. I do not know what we would say tomorrow but my emotional state is not good enough to deal with i think. We baby stepped forward, even though he is in relationship -and happy ( mentioned many times) but I do not want to jeopardize any forward movement. And if I am changing, which I am because I would have spewed instead of not replying I do not want old ruby to surface in convo.
