The latest is my SIL is trying to brainwash my D. Tell her things that a child doesn't need to hear. Last night my D called me at work about 1AM. Mom wasn't home from work and all my D wanted to do was talk. I told her our D was not her fault. She replied even a little bit my fault. My response "no honey we were able to mess things up all by ourselves."
Well it [censored] knowing someone is our there thinking it's okay to play mind games with a 14 year old.