Journal:

I also found out he went in my room and took his family jewellery, didn't tell me and then when I asked he said yes.

I replied I was hurt and his text was don't be hurt you were mad and I was afraid you were going to fund a trip to Cuba.

I said I would never do that to you or our daughter. But I am hurt and sad.

He said you have looked through my stuff in the past and when you came to apartment you were in bathroom for long time and I bet you looked in shower and in medicine cabinet and he is equating taking the things from my space when I had asked him not to go up there the same as looking in his shower!!

All I said was I understand.

Now he texts and says if you want to meet for coffe tomorrow I am pretty free and I can't use situational ethics.

I think I will reply that I said I understood, and I do, but it is not for you to say how I feel because of it.

I really want to say, it's not the same thing, arsehole....but in his mind it is...so help me out please with a reply