Thanks forest, your input is both valuable and appreciated.
Flirty: I was actually more so, but it had to do with past intimacy and I didn't want to post here :p
Actually, aim not yet willing to ask questions at this point that I am not prepared to hear the answers to.
Nope- talking is fraught with minefields at this point for me and I am afraid that I will try to control convo or steer it in a direction or bring up R when clearly he is not at R point at all. He has said this firmly to me and by the way of silence if I sent an email. In one missive he claimed I ambushed him by coming over uninvited and then asking him questions- so he had to lie. Have to unpack that further. Was it my controlling situation and his responding like he does when I exhibit this behaviour? Probably
13..... I am NOT twirling hair or giggling....have to draw line somewhere j/k
But I understand. As to kicking, I am a pretty strong girl...fire away
