snodderly~I should have taped him for many reasons, yet another possible win for America's Funniest Home Videos, OR I could have created a youtube sensation!! LOL Yes, well I say, let the guilt run wild, he should feel darn guilty, I wonder if it ever gets old kicking someone who's ever so nice to you all the time?

Kimmerz~Hey stranger!! Thank you so much!! Well I have always been told how patient I am, this whole MLC thing really tests it though! I figure killing him with kindness is better than smothering him to death with his pillow! LOL grin

AJM~You hit the nail on the head! Amusing and scary.... strange mix! The memory lapse thing still gets me. Just the other day H said to me, I think I told you the local discount grocery store extended their hours through the week? I looked at him in disbelief for a second before saying, Um, I told you about that a couple of weeks ago.... Strange!!!

T~LMAO underwear gnomes!!! That's a VERY amusing mental pic!!! Perhaps I would randomly drink too if those crafty little bastards were messing with my underwear! laugh I don't know about me being a saint, but I'll take the compliment, thank you!

LoisB~Ugh, changing his diaper, no thanks! lol Funny though, as I was putting his socks on for him I thought perhaps I shouldn't be in social work anymore, perhaps I should, I don't know,explore the option of geriatric care, I mean I getting enough practice with H! j/k I have no desire to work with the elderly.


The latest from Crazytown~ Well I'm pretty sure I pissed him off again, but I'm ok with that, I wanted to make it known I'm not stupid. Here's what happened. Monday evening I told H I didn't know what time I would be home the next evening due to a work meeting and then the gym. He said I'll be home late Thursday and Friday evening. I said ok, and then asked, "Not going to tell me what you are doing?" He actually didn't freak out on me for asking. He claims he has a work dinner Thursday and is shopping for gun parts Friday. I just said ok. I know for a fact his work Christmas party is Friday.

So I went back to the bedroom and pondered this for a few minutes, and texted my dear friend, because I really really felt the urge to make it known I know about the Christmas party.

Here's what I did. I walked back out to the kitchen where he was packing his lunch for the next day and ever so casually said, "Isn't your work Christmas party coming up? It's usually this weekend..." He stopped making his sandwich, looked up and said, "What?" I repeated. He said, "It's either this weekend or next weekend, I don't know, I'm not going. I'm not the party type (that's true, or was anyway)." I said something to the effect of, "That's good, after the vodka thing Sunday I wouldn't be a party person either." He didn't respond, just seemed SUPER annoyed. I asked, "What too soon to make a vodka joke?" He barked no at me. I said I was sorry for the joke and walked away.

Ever since Monday evening he has barely said two words to me, and I haven't started any conversations with him. I'm trying to keep my distance. Last night the only thing he said to me was, there was no mail today and I'm going to bed. I said ok, (I was making a cake at the time, another co-workers b-day),and I still have to make icing(yep peanut butter, I know you're wondering LOL), I hope that doesn't bother you. He said no, I said sleep well. This morning no c-ya or anything, and he knew I was up. I'm still in my whatever mode. I'm not the one doing anything wrong.

I don't know if he's telling the truth or not. I think he may be annoyed that I know and he thought he could pull one over on me. There is always the slim chance he is telling the truth because I know he is signed up to go to a match the next day, it starts I think 8ish, and it's kinda far away, so why in the world would you stay out late the night before?

I'm just not sure I buy the work dinner thing on Thursday night when the party is Friday night.... but then again I could see the company he works for doing something that stupid because they have a lot of money so if reps come in and aren't going to be there for the party they generally do dinners with them.

I'm leaning toward lie, because well, that's all he seems to do in this MLC, lie... and then lie about lying... I love(heavy sarcasm here)when he says, "Heather I've never lied to you." Yeah....ok.... riiiiight.... if I buy that will you tell me another one?