Sounds like script to me. They all say the same things and do the same things it never ceases to amaze me how all these sitchs are so similar. My H said many of the same things as you. My bomb drop occured after a hellish year which included H's favorite aunt passing away, his mother's health failing, a stressful work year and crappy shenanigans with his son from his first marriage. Of course that was all my fault. Everything still is my fault. Apparently it's even my fault too that he's having an affair because he lived in a hostile environment for 14 years. Whatever.
Others will drop by to comment. Hang in there as best you can.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
