Wow! Nice busting, really nice! I just confirmed the who in OW, so my emotions have been crazy too. I like how you bit your tongue and then explained what was really bothering you when you found some grace and calmness.
Communication is key. Next time around, with H or some other lucky lucky guy you are going to know exactly how speak and not let things go unsaid or swept under the rug.
Does anyone but me ever think it is too bad we all love our spouses so much, cuz if we got together with other DB ers there would be world peace and harmony?
