Eyesopen and Mister Bond,
Thank you, I understand. I just sent an email with what I thought could be a possible time schedule for the coming days and next week.
Adding little things like :"if you have no objection" and "just want to make sure you're comfortable with it" and "I'll bring him fed and clean".
My own proposition is still very unsufficient, but I have to take it slow for the moment.
(Saturday the 22nd, I fly back to France, so it will be no visit time at all for 2 weeks.)

Then I start work again and have to ask as much time as I can. Looks like the court hearing will take place on the 18th Jan. and I hope that by then :

1. Either W has made a big step in sharing S, and even soften her heart, and her lawyer has convinced her to not push it, and we won't have to go.
or
2. We still have to go, but at least there are all these visits to back up my request. (Not as outlandish as "he hasn't changed a diaper, and now he wants 50% custody"...)

Either way, my best shot is to love my son above all.
Does that seem the most sensible thing to do for now?

Bonsoir,
B.


Me:34 ; W:28
Son: almost 2.
Married : 14 March 2009
DBomb : 18 June 2012
Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries)
Same country and city since July 2012