T2, The fact that she is reading about relationships sounds like a good thing. When she said she had to learn how to be "mad at you" is she really saying how to be mad and still care for/love you at the same time? She probably does not know how. It is obvious throught this MLC you have mastered the "let go of" part of arguements but a controlling person always has a hard time letting go of or accepting things as they are. It is unatural to their charachter. Seems like i'm babling but i'm reflecting that my W could very well say those same words. Heck, I could say those same words.
Take care T2, i have always appreciated your insight into these deep matters. Me, I don't swim in the deep waters too often
I would rather feel pain then never feel at all... Separated 3/2012 T 34 yrs M 27 yrs