I just have to preface this with I am not here to fight you or put down your thoughts. I am here to challenge you and give you a different perspective. I have been where you are. I have "won" and then been right back where you are. If you want me to stop posting.. just say the word. This is your thread. I won't be heartbroken or really take any offense at you asking me to leave. But.. while I am here with your permission I am going to challenge you.
Is that clear enough? If you have any questions please ask them.
So..
"He moved awfully quickly And no longer has to deAl with all the emotions that were attached to our relationship."
This is incorrect. He is just dealing with them in a different manner than you. His option is just as non-healthy as yours.
"Truthfully this is the most honest we have ever been with each other and it is good."
Tell me why you think he is being more honest now? Give examples and point out the high points.
"It doesn't fill me with hope or expectation, it is nice to see that he has started looking at his own part in everything as well. I have been looking long and hard at myself and while he will not believe the changes now he may 6,8,10 months"
But you made that statement with the expectation that he would see his part in it. Now you are happy that he did. And then you just kind of said.. "Wait till he sees me down the road!"
Getting the point?
How come I can "See you now"? Clearly.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
