"No, but it isn't a question I can ask plain : why don't you want me to spend more time with my son? without sounding accusing."
No you don't ask like that. You watch your tone and you ask her like this... "I would like to have our son for a longer stretch of time. Do you have any objections? If so, what are they? I want to be sure you're comfortable with it."
You haven't shown much tact when you talk to your W in the past. This might change her mind.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.