"W is still reluctant to grant me more time with S."
Have you ever asked her why?
No, but it isn't a question I can ask plain : why don't you want me to spend more time with my son? without sounding accusing.
Her court petition asked for 100% custody for her and allows me short visits. My counter petition said just the contrary anyway : I felt the visitation schedule was insufficient, and asked for 50% custody.
And she mentionned fuzzy BS excuses like his stage of developpment, his young age and sensitive tummy.
My interpretation : since she had him since he was born, it is difficult for her to get separated from him, even when the husband wants, (and is entitled to) more time with him (and further from her since she took the decision to separate). If anyone had a suggestion on how to ask her to increase my visit time...I'm all ears So far, since I have many days off this week, I have written emails to ask to spend the days with S. Which was refused since she responded I could take him for 2 hours, one day this week, and two days next week... disappointing. to say the least. B
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012
