FY I understand silence might not be good but compared to our 1st month, she clearly was able to tell me she wanted out. But to be honest yes I was pushing her to answer the question. Maybe because I am more detached and that I know my life will be fine with or without her.....I guess I wasn't scared to hear the outcome right? If she said she was done, I was already prepared to say thank you and move on...I want to stick to my 6 month plan...but If we do these monthly R checkups, I will ask the same question. One of my 180 is to stop hiding my feelings.
I won't bring up R questions unless we continue to do these monthly R checkups that she requested in our therapy session.
For my boundary...ya I am ready to follow through. I decided if she really did it, then that means she is happy. I have no right to deny her happiness and I refuse to allow myself to suffer.
Maybe I can heal from it later if she crosses the boundary, but right now it's my boundary.
Before this I told her my stance that I want her, I can be a great husband, I can make her happy again. I reinforced I am there for her.
