Life with a Cake Eater

[mizjjd]

Wow. This is one cake loving crowd lol.

Go Miz!

Love the title of the new thread....but always chocolate for me - Devil's Food sounds appropriate!

Devil's Food makes H sick, so let's have LOTS of that lol >Bad me<

Sorry I haven't caught up on whole story, but do love the title. Can I have cake with you guys, seems the H gets all the cake at my house these days

I hear that one loud and clear! Welcome and have a slice

Am I invited?

Yes I told you not to move out of the bedroom.
If you look up the top 10 mistakes you can make in a divorce, one of them is moving out of the bedroom or house.
It can be used against you, as abandonment.

If he does not want to be a proper husband then let him leave.
Maintain your boundaries.
Although I am not sure what I think about this it was posted yesterday from MWD
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2306478#Post2306478

I dont think cakeating in an active affair is a good idea.

But Michele has some food for thought.

Yes, join us Cadet! I checked out that link and I too have mixed feelings about it. I can see how it does help to maintain a connection but in the case of an affair or even an MLC/WAS who appears to simply "expect" servicing... not sure its the best idea. For me, it would definitely hinder detachment. But thanks for sharing!

Can I join the coffee cake group? Cinnamon struesal for me.
There was a picnic blanket group in newcomers but I never felt I fit so I didn't ask to join. But this one's for me if you'll have me! Pretty please?

GWN, I'm sorry you fit in here because its certainly not an enjoyable commonality But WELCOME!!

I'll take any cake but no nuts! I have had enough of nuts to last a lifetime! : )

And you know, there is not much worse than biting into a nut gone bad!

Thank you everyone for stopping by for some cake with me

H is, I think, a cake-eating-camel. Yesterday there was the hug, today there was a fanny pat. The only thing I read into this is that he's establishing dominance or territory. I don't want him to think he's "getting to me" so want to be very low key when I address the issue.

Other than that, status quo. He tells me about his online poker games. We talk about kid related stuff.

Work is trudging along for me. Def don't see this being a life long career...

Ah! Have to run already.

Thanks again everybody for stopping by. I'm suddenly so pressed for time that I haven't been able to check in on others' threads the way I should. But I hope you all are having good days.