TheUF - Changing gears - Dropping the rope?

[chatterbug]

you should think about adding some of the following.

Positives:
Learning to recognize OR talks.
Learning to understand my flaws and owning them.
Realizing Lady UF's flaws and learning to not fix them.
Learning how to detatch and understanding dependency issues.
Negatives:
Seem to mind read too much.
Seem to not be able to detatch from OR talks.
Seem to be focused solely on Son and Lady UF.
Need to build up on activities outside of work that make me a better rounded person.
Need to balance Career with son. ( Tough one as this is the time in your life where you get ahead... I think you really need to spend some energy here and revisit this. As it seems you enjoy your work as well. And there is nothing wrong in enjoying your work. As you were building towards a career with Lady UF guiding the home-front and she fell short on that and blamed you for her short comings. Trans-placed guilt. )