I don’t subscribe to the idea of letting the spouse do as they please while I sit around working on myself theory. You are still a person regardless of pass transgression. You are worthy of respect and honesty and while she might want to be with you at the moment she should still treat you as she would any decent person. There are boundaries you must have and everyone picks their own. I had mine that were firm you must decide what they are for you. Be advised though that constant fluctuating boundaries are more damaging than they are helpful so if you lay one down make sure it is something you can live with, if not don’t bother (isn’t that right Denver?)
Well you have plenty of reading material. Best of luck! Remember…..you win or you learn but in life you never lose!
I always said that 2stepboogie should have picked "Fyodor Dostoyevsky" as his moniker. LOL... But yes, he is correct. And giving you great advice... as are all of the others. Advice is useless though unless you learn from it and try to follow at least some of it.
Nice to see you hear 2step. You have a lot of good advice for people here. Hope to see you more.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
