Piecing - Round 1

[Denver_2010]

No significant updates. It's been a tough couple of weeks for W and I. I don't think that it is anything unusual for marriage though. Just kind of on each other's nerves off and on. We did have a nice time up in Vail this past weekend.

My W is throwing me a 40th birthday party this coming weekend and is going above and beyond. She loves to plan big events, but stresses out over them big time. This one is a Boardwalk Empire/roaring 20's party and we are suppose to have 40 or people at our house. Anyway, she's been stressed about that, so I'm trying to be patient with her, shall we say, crabbiness.

OM texted her again b!tching more about not getting gigs due to her. He's upset about not being put on a gig for NY's Eve up in Aspen. W is on the show and I'm going to be there. He's an idiot. She did not reply to him but did let the owner of the company know that she continues to feel harassed. Apparently the owner of the company talked to OM about it and he said that he would never contact W again. We shall see. She told me about the text the same day that she received it.

I haven't been around much on the board bc I have not been feeling great, and have been super busy with work and helping W with the leg work and heavy lifting in regards to our party.

Thanks for checking in everyone!

P.S. Cor - I think that what you are experiencing is not abnormal. When you find yourself trying to measure how your W feels not vs. how she felt on BD, remember that all of our emotions and feelings change with time. How she feels now most certainly is not how she felt then... she wouldn't be with you otherwise. And any of us, or our spouses, may feel differently about our relationships a year from now, 5 years from now, 20 years from now. There are no guarantees with our M's or our lives in general. That is something that we learned when we first had the bomb dropped on us... right? Live in the present... focus on making things better now and for the future... let the past go and move forward.

Denver