My wife wants to separate

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Thank you for the motivational comments. I see you have some little ones in the family too. I tried to find your original post to read about your stitch but couldn't figure out where it is.

Anyway, I would like to focus on why you think I am 'in a good position' for a minute because that is music to my ears. Why do you think that? Because her new R is based on attention only? She says he is a great guy but really she thinks that because she knows his brother who is married to her friend. She doesn't know the guy himself.

It is hard to detach when she is there all the time. She is acting like we are just friends now. I saw one success story where the H took the approach of being her best friend and it worked out for him. But I can't help feeling once you are just a friend that's hard to come back from. But I guess the I'm was just a friend and things escalated.

Any other comments, tips or words of wisdom. Please bring them on!