Agree^^^^. They will do what they will do, and knowing every aspect of everything does not change this. You will only want to know more, even if there is no more. New underwear will become an item of suspicion, dishes not done will equal she is out with someone else. Trust a veteran control freak and snooper, get help to stop this line of anxiety and needing to know, it really doesn't give you any more control in the sitch.
In fact, it's YOU who is controlled by fear & anxiety that does nothing good...it's a destructive force that undermines your marriage &
any joy you might have felt, becomes polluted w/self inflicted, painful doubt...which alienates your spouse more, & may even cause the very thing you fear, to actually happen.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
