OK well It is getting to be close to xmass and well my WAW still has the car in both our names. I just got notified that she did not make the payment and the next one is coming up next week. I sent the letter i got to my WAW did not put anything in it just the late notice. So Now I am waiting to see what she is going to do.
She is the type person that will go into deep dept at xmass for her kids that arre 24 and 20. We always had the money when we were together but now that she has walked away she is hurting but still spending.
All i want to do is help my wife but not sure if i should or how to deal with this. The gaol here is to do things that will help bring us together not pull us apart. I have already put money in the joint account a month ago when the big storm SANDY hit us. Told her to us it if she needs it. I was also told the it would be good to put more money in the accont and send a text to WAW saying holidays are coming so i put extra cash in account its there for you to use.I have not done that yet but plan on it soon.
any other ideas that can help with the car thing. I just know she is really having a very hard time with making ends meet.. she is now working 3 jobs
