I do know that I have to be careful and not read into anything. Unfortunately, I believe that anything H does right now that is half way nice is sketchy. I always am thinking he has an different motive:( I wish I didnt have to think that way, but I do, sadly!
I think he must have been feeling a bit nostalgic last night. Late last night (too late for D14 to be getting texts) she came downstairs crying...and handed me her phone. There was a message from H. It said:
"Im singing by myself right now and thinking of being there:( Im missing you"
This made her upset. I just calmed her down and talked to her and then after she went to bed I got kinda upset that he has the nerve to text her those things. If he is thinking about how it was here at our house than he needs to keep it to himself because D14 doesnt need to know.
He used to be in a band with his buddies (that he quit when he left me) and he used to sing all the time here on his mic to practice. He just recently got his stuff from his buddies house so I guess this was the first time he had practiced and sang and it reminded him of how he used to do that here.
I guess he really does think of home sometimes...
Anyway...kinda weird that he texted her that. Then he sent one more text that said "I just set up all my DJ stuff to make sure everything is working...Im a loser" I didnt quite get that text at all..but goes to show is in a strange thought process right now???
M:36 H:36 D14, D11, Baby due in March M:15 T:18 Met OW: 3/12 H Moved out: 8/12 Legal Sep: 11/5/12