When does she take responsibility? I don't get that my actions made her have an affair and that's okay.
But her actions, one could say, push me to having an emotional affair, but none of it is her fault and I have to "take responsibility" for that? While she suffers no consequences? takes no responsibility.
I think DB lets the cheating spouse off the hook.
She takes responsibility on her own. You are in no position to place blame or make her be responsible. How would that look?
You: You cheated! You're horrible! blah blah blah Her: Ok. Bye.
Making her feel responsible gets you nowhere but out the door.
You can only change you.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
