I do agree w/Cadet...if he doesn't want to sleep in the bedroom or stay in the home w/you, then he should be the one to leave. The lbs do not want to give the mlcers any room for excuses such as abandonment on our part.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
