Personally I think the emails are a bit unneeded and somewhat confrontational. On both parts. Hence more of the same thing between you teo. As far as the kids I have to agree they will want to swing between you and H. This is very normal and expected. They have to work this out in their mind also. You just need to be strong and not take it personal. I will have to go back a read the rest of the story but from what I "see" here.. just keep yourself protected (Lawyer) and keep notes/emails to yourself. You would be better served to talk about things face to face with him. If things take a true turn for the worse or he gets nasty.. make sure the L knows.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
