I think it was a reasonable request. I also however, think you need to be prepared for your H to not comply.
As for S16, as sad as it is and as much as it may hurt, I think you need to let him do, what he needs to do. ((( )))


M: 29, H: 31
D: 9
S: 8
T: 13 Y
M: 9 Y
ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012
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Worrying does not empty tomorrow
of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths