Things have been okay. The R talk went well I think...she still is confused. At one point I asked her if she was really done with us and she remained silent....I take that as a good sign. In the beginning she would tell me we were done.
I also let her know my boundary to her OM....I told her if things get intimate, I am done. I told her, even if she didn't feel obligated to our marriage, everybody has a pushing point.
She asked me what does intimate mean to me...I told her once you give your body, it's become full blown intimate relationship.
Not sure if that was smart but I felt she needed to know, I can only take so much.
