Agree^^^^. They will do what they will do, and knowing every aspect of everything does not change this. You will only want to know more, even if there is no more. New underwear will become an item of suspicion, dishes not done will equal she is out with someone else. Trust a veteran control freak and snooper, get help to stop this line of anxiety and needing to know, it really doesn't give you any more control in the sitch.