hmmmm...you might be right, but I thought I was pretty clear on what he was describing. His thoughts regarding the OM, is that he was also just left by a cheating wife, only 6months ago. My coach felt that his intentions are probably innocent, and that he could very well be a good advocate for me. he also said that it would happen with or without my blessing, so why not make it seem like I thought it was a good idea...I still opted out of intentionally sending my wife to another man.