I think he meant to validate your W's feelings. Maybe you shouldn't say "beyond repair". But that's your choice. If your coach tells you to do it, then go ahead.

I believe his thinking was that the sooner you push your W into the arms of the OM, it'll be the old "be careful what you wish for" scenario. Whereby the fantasy will be finished much quicker.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER