H asked about my company's "Adult" holiday party. "Adult" meaning alcohol is involved and nothing kinky. He wanted to know if I still needed him to go. I told him that although I don't need him to go I want him to go. He agreed.

As I mentioned above, H wants to talk about Christmas. In the past, we would both travel the 2 hours to get to my parents house for some of the holidays. In the past few years, he didn't want to go and I didn't force him because I knew that he didn't like the drive. Besides, if he went to visit my family during other holidays/events, it was okay with me. Eventually, he didn't want to visit at all.

It's been confirmed that my sister is going to have Christmas at her house. So, we'll see what happens when we talk about Christmas.

By the way, Christmas morning is going to be here at home with his family (as a reminder, we all live in the same house) so we won't be completely missing the holiday with his side.

Me39 H35 M8 T14
Early 5/12 H FB post re: his love for me.
End 5/12 H done trying, writes "Dear John" letter
6/12 Wants D, calls ATTY, no file
1/13 Loves me, wants to try, moves home
3/13 Changes mind