Ultimately, no it's not okay with me. At some point I will have to draw the line. I'm honestly afraid too. Then again, the other fear I have is that once the holidays have come and gone, she'll file. I need to stop living in that fear. I'm kind of being a doormat. I am going to call and set up a time with Jody tomorrow. Hopefully I can talk with her ASAP.
Last night W had an IC. She checked in to let me know she was there. Not expected. After the appt, she shared some info about the session re: her family of origin, impact on her, and siblings. I simply sat there and listened, including during the pauses with which she then shared more and more. No physical affection from her again at night / cuddling. Today she again has sent some emails and a phone call.
I have noticed many of my work / parent / other family boundaries are generally good and intact. The worst one I have is obviously with W. Am I DBing by not pressuring her re: contact with OM / not bringing up the R, or living in fear / being a doormat (not simply a LBS)?
