"IC says that 4 months is awhile for him to be gone and that the longer they are gone they usually just keep on moving forward and stay gone."

your IC doesn't have a crystal ball. keep working on yourself and living as if you will be fine without him.

next week will be the one-year anniversary of my BD. my H wants to reconcile. i'm not sure i do. every sitch is different. i can't believe your IC is so negative. you might consider getting a new one.

((((())))))

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing