I kept my response e-mail as short as possible last Friday.

Me to W: " We are going away on Saturday for a family Christmas Party and will not be back until Sunday night because we will be staying overnight."

She then replied, asking what time we would be leaving?

Which i did not reply to due to feeling angry that this was the 1st contact since the day before Thanksgiving and i felt it was too last minute, in addition to us already having plans made.

I currently feel that by not replying with details or answering her follow up question was immature on my part.

I feel like letting her know that i should have provided her more information and that i apologize for being so to the point and that was all.

What do you guys think?

Also, i am concerned about our communications, especially about our S becoming resentful and was considering asking if she would be willing to attend a weekend Retrouville retreat to explore our communication dialogues and potentially re-establish a better relationship between us, for the benefit of improved co-parenting and to see if there still is an ember of a spark buried away, awaiting to be rekindled.


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012