She doesn't know him that well. He told her he would do all of this for her even before they started a PA. Just during texting and talking! Yesterday she wanted to get into a money talk with me about alimony. I slid it off but she mentioned that OM wants to go back to school through an online course. So, she doesn't want him to have to have two jobs (what he told her he would do) and go to school just to pay for her. So she thought we needed to talk about how much I can give her every week. I told her you know we barely cover our expenses right now, and just because you go and spend a couple nights a week there doesn't mean that changes our budget. Following the DB rules, I did not bad mouth the OM about how he promised you he would pay for everything if you left your husband and your baby....I just planted a seed in her head of doubt that he can come through with his promises. Does that sound ok? Am I doing it right?
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
