That is A LOT of info the H gave you, sounds like he is bouncing along the bottom and some reality is cutting through his fog...sit quietly with this, keep that path open for him to keep feeling safe to open up with you.
IMO, this is the beginning...you might be learning a lot about H in the next few months if you keep that line open.
Here a quote from HB from here:
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they won't tell everything; but it will be enough that you'll know they're sincere.
And positive changes WILL be made that can be seen clearly..if they aren't ready, these changes aren't forthcoming..and they will still be blaming you with THEIR problems that you know are NOT yours; you didn't break them, therefore you can't fix them.
Hang in there! I am hoping this is the break through for you that we all hope for in this journey!
As Snodderly says, sit quietly, the answers will come...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm