I'm not sure if the thread was copied and pasted correctly. So, a quick recap. My wife has been have an EA (yeah, right). I discovered at least one instance of a PA happening. Anyway, it's been going on for 8+ years and, finally, I saw her coming back to work from having lunch with OM (getting out of his car) on 20 Nov and told her she needed to leave. I had had enough and it was time for her to figure out what she wanted in life. She left on Friday, 7 December. So, life has been interesting but I have really focused on God, reading the Boundaries in Marriage book, and going over some DB chapters again. So, I came back to provide an update on my sitch and to help those who want it so they don't wait for 8+ years. It just took that long for my son to graduate high school and move on and.....yes, for me to get strong enough to ask her to leave since she showed no signs of stopping the affair.
M: 48 (2nd marriage) W: 47 (1st marriage) T: 22 M: 21 D (M, 1st Marriage: 26) D (M, 1st Marriage: 24) S: 18 EA: 31 Dec 2004 ILYBINILWY: 31 Dec 2004 In all things give thanks to God; I thank you God.
