He is not fighting me on any decisions. No decisions were made really. He just left and didnt ask for any rights at all. He calls when he wants and emails me if he wants to come and see her which isnt very often. I have been to a lawyer and am going back again soon. Probably early in the new year. As much as I do want him to come back, if he choses not to then I need to make sure me and D are financially stable and have a good parenting plan in place. That will be my "last-last resort technique". For now im just staying dark, its very hard and as each day passes and he doesnt contact I get more anxious and sad but im trying to focus on the other things in my life which are not in "turmoil" (I think someone on here said to do that).
