So OK an important question still has not been answered and I still cant figure it out for myself. How can I show her I am more attentive, affectionate, loving and ready to take care of her needs if I cannot touch her and she doesn't sleep in the same room as me?
Read the 5 Love Languages. There are many ways to show love that don't require showing affection. And your W may have a completely different love language than you do, you may be showing her the kind of love that has no appeal to her.
