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She says she still blames me for our ruined marriage and really accepts no blame for it.


Do you think she's to blame and that you're completely blameless? Are you still waiting for her to "come to her senses" or are you working on an action plan per DR?

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I don't know guys but it seems to feel like its over. She seems so set to start a new life with this guy.


So what are you doing to detach, GAL and make yourself into an H only a fool would leave?

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Do you still think there is a chance she can change her mind? Is there any point in trying even?


Are you going to give up before you even start trying? Because I've seen no indication in your thread that you've done anything yet. How are you making yourself into a better person to attract her back?


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57