Yeah, I exhaled on that one lol. It's like he gets close and then backs off, remembering that he isn't supposed to like me. Not that he gets mean or angry, can just tell he holds back. I had asked him Monday morning about going to my company Christmas party this weekend. He said maybe. But then Monday evening when I ask him (bc I need to get a sitter if we go) he says it depends on a recording session - that he just found out he could get involved with Monday afternoon. What? Whatever, I should know where I rate. I think I'm going to have to detach more, especially with letting him come over so much. It doesn't hurt me but I just think it gives him the impression that this situation is all ok. That he can go about making any plans he wants and no responsibilities and just come hang out with us. Because its frustrating to me. Hope you are having a good day Grace!