So I've been taking a beating on here and for good reason. I wasn't listen to you folks, but that's really secondary now.
Last night my wife drops another huge bomb on me. She asked if she could talk to me. I really didn't want to talk and told her that if it was bout our marriage then we should probably not talk. What came next was a kick to the gut. She admitted that she's been having a PA with my ex friend for like a year. A YEAR dangit. They've only be physical a handful of times. She started telling me stuff and I was kept telling her that I didn't want to hear it, I couldn't hear this now. She said that she was so mad at me for my crush on my co-worker that she wanted to make be pay. First it started as a joke with my ex friend, but then it turned into sex. They decided to end it just before I confronted them.
i was so numb that I couldn't really talk about he. She was very uncomfortable with my silence. I wanted to scream and yell at her, but I couldn't find it in me. She just ramped up the anger at me. saying that if I was more involved, if I took care of myself, if I hadn't written the stupid poem for a her then none o this would never have happened. She said that she needed that in her life at the moment, but doesn't know what the future is.
She said I was selfish in our marriage and we just didn't work for a long time.
I just stood up and said. I don't know what to say and went to the in law apt. She followed me with more anger and yelling. I told her that I can't do this now and I need some time to take in this information.
